Alanya Grace, a spiritual technologist and modern prophetess, discusses a listener's question about navigating a romantic relationship where one partner is seeking a sexual hookup. She outlines a three-step approach: comprehension, communication, and cutting. Comprehension involves understanding one's desires and the spiritual aspects of love. Communication entails clearly expressing one's standards and expectations. Cutting means ending the relationship if the other party cannot meet those standards, as it aligns with lower consciousness and is not compatible with the seeker's spiritual journey. Alanya Grace emphasizes the importance of recognizing true love as a divine gift and being selective in relationships to maintain spiritual growth.

Action Items

• Comprehend the situation and your own desires and standards for a relationship.
• Communicate openly with the other person about your intentions and boundaries.
• If the other person cannot meet your standards, have the courage to cut ties and remove this from your life.

Outline

Introduction to the Podcast and Spiritual Technologist Role

• Alanya Grace introduces herself as a spiritual technologist and modern prophetess, founder of Binary Spirit.
• She explains her mission to explore everyday issues from a spiritual perspective and share spiritual technology and divine algorithms.
• The focus of the episode is on love and relationships, a topic close to everyone's heart.
• Alanya mentions that the questions for the podcast series were inspired by a spiritual dialogue with her friend Roberto LaBella during a plane journey.

Roberto's Question on Navigating a Relationship

• Roberto's question is about a lady who is looking for a serious romantic relationship but encounters a man who is only interested in a sexual hookup.
• Alanya emphasizes the importance of understanding the intentions of each party in relationships.
• She shares her personal wish for a spiritual guide during her younger years to help navigate such situations.
• Alanya outlines her response to Roberto's question, which she frames around the three C's: comprehension, communication, and cutting.

Comprehension in Relationships

• Alanya advises the lady to take time to comprehend the situation and her own desires and expectations in dating.
• She stresses the importance of introspection and understanding why she is dating and what she is looking for in a relationship.
• Alanya explains that romantic relationships involve more complex dynamics compared to normal friendships.
• She encourages the lady to remind herself of her goals and the type of relationship she wants to pursue.

Facing the Truth and Understanding Love

• Alanya advises the lady to face the truth from a spiritual perspective and understand that love is a gift from God.
• She emphasizes that love is meant to be beautiful, meaningful, and transformative, and that the current situation is a counterfeit of true love.
• Alanya explains the difference in consciousness between love and lust, using mathematical terms to illustrate the disparity.
• She encourages the lady to understand the divine logic and standards for love and to be conscious of her sexual boundaries.

Communication and Setting Standards

• Alanya advises the lady to communicate her standards and expectations clearly to the other party.
• She emphasizes that there is nothing to be ashamed of in having high standards and wanting true love.
• Alanya suggests giving the other party a chance to see if they can elevate their consciousness and transform their behavior.
• She acknowledges that the other party might need help to wake up from their lower consciousness state.

Cutting and Moving Forward

• Alanya explains that if the other party cannot meet the lady's standards, it is time to cut the relationship.
• She describes the dynamic as characteristic of lower consciousness and emphasizes the importance of understanding energy patterns.
• Alanya explains that true love involves moving energy up to the heart and beyond, and that most men cannot transmute their energy from lust to love.
• She encourages the lady to have the courage to cut what is not good for her and to trust that true love will come in unexpected ways.

Conclusion and Final Thoughts

• Alanya reiterates the importance of understanding and valuing oneself and true love.
• She emphasizes that God and source work behind the scenes to bring true love into one's life.
• Alanya encourages the lady to have the courage to know her worth, communicate her worth, and cut what is not good for her.
• She concludes by wishing the lady blessings on her journey of love and spiritual growth.

Every Blessings,

S.T. Alanya Grace 

Spiritual Technologist, Modern Prophetess & Founder of Binary Spirit