How to Open Your Heart to Love Following a Breakup
Jan 03, 2025Alanya Grace, a Spiritual Technologist and modern prophetess, discusses the process of healing and opening one's heart to new love after a breakup. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and embracing true love, which transcends lower emotions like lust. Alanya Grace advises taking time to understand personal needs and desires, practicing self-love, and forgiving oneself. She suggests rituals like writing and burning lessons learned to symbolize a fresh start. Alanya Grace also highlights the significance of elevating one's consciousness, being comfortable with oneself, and seeking a divine partner who aligns on all seven dimensions of consciousness.
Action Items
- Spend time understanding your core values and what you truly enjoy.
- Invite God and the Holy Spirit to guide you in your quest for love.
- Elevate your consciousness and truly love and be comfortable with yourself.
- Pray and let God guide you on the journey of going deeper through the pain to find your true essence and divine counterpart.
Opening the Heart to New Love After a Breakup
- Alanya Grace introduces the podcast episode, focusing on how to open one's heart to new love after a breakup, inspired by a question from her friend Roberto LaBella.
- Alanya emphasizes that everyone is on a journey seeking love, as love is a key to heaven and a reflection of God's nature.
- She quotes a mystic and poet, suggesting that the heart must break to feel true love, which was perhaps missing in the previous relationship.
- Alanya explains that true love is a higher consciousness level, unlike the lower, unsustainable emotions often mistaken for love.
Understanding and Protecting the Heart
- Alanya discusses how people often protect their hearts due to past rejections, pain, and disappointments, leading to a calcification of the heart.
- She describes the process of heartbreaking as removing this protective layer to reveal the true, divine love within.
- The heartbreaking process allows individuals to acknowledge their true desires and make a conscious decision to seek a lasting, divine love.
- Alanya encourages taking time to feel and understand the pain from the breakup, engaging in a retrospective dialogue to identify the reasons for the relationship's end.
Letting Go and Inviting Divine Love
- Alanya outlines the process of letting go emotionally, energetically, physically, and spiritually, including releasing any soul ties from the previous relationship.
- She recommends writing down lessons learned and symbolically burning them to signify a new start and a new love story.
- Alanya stresses the importance of inviting God and the Holy Spirit into the healing process to guide the journey to true love.
- She encourages focusing on divine love, which is compatible across all seven dimensions of consciousness, rather than settling for lower, unsustainable emotions.
Knowing Oneself and Embracing Vulnerability
- Alanya advises truly knowing oneself, including core values, interests, and unique needs, to attract a divine partner.
- She shares her own example of being a strong, sensitive individual and the importance of embracing one's quirks and weaknesses.
- Alanya emphasizes the need to commit to a spiritual relationship that respects, honors, and cherishes one's unique way of being loved.
- She highlights the importance of elevating one's consciousness, being comfortable with oneself, and understanding the depth and complexity of true love.
Elevating Consciousness and Self-Love
- Alanya encourages spending time with oneself, being comfortable with alone time, and understanding one's worth to attract true divine love.
- She explains that everything, including love, can be calculated mathematically in terms of consciousness, and raising one's consciousness attracts higher levels of love.
- Alanya advises being kind, compassionate, and respectful to oneself, learning boundaries, and honoring one's emotions as messages from the soul.
- She emphasizes the importance of praying, opening the heart, and letting God guide the journey to true love and self-discovery.
The Journey to True Love and Self-Discovery
- Alanya describes the process of going deeper through pain to feel true love and divine essence, transforming apparent weakness into strength.
- She encourages letting the process refine and mold oneself, leading to a higher self and a graceful, bold approach to true love.
- Alanya concludes by wishing blessings and guidance on the journey of love and light, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery and divine guidance.
- She reiterates the beauty and complexity of true love, which brings emotional and spiritual development and unites two people as one.
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