Love is a Choice
Sep 04, 2025
Alanya Grace, a spiritual technologist, discusses the concept of love as a choice, rooted in the biblical verse Joshua 24:15. She emphasizes that love must be chosen daily, hourly, and in every moment to elevate consciousness and align with one's true divine essence. Grace argues that romantic relationships are spiritual gifts meant to bring us closer to God and that a covenant with God should be made before marriage. She advises that true love should be compatible across seven dimensions of consciousness and that incompatible relationships are divine signs to pursue higher good. Grace encourages choosing love over chaos and using challenges as opportunities for spiritual growth.
Action Items
- Make a commitment with your partner to always choose love, no matter what happens.
- Observe if your partner can keep the bond with God and respect your divinity.
- Pursue your highest good if the relationship is not nourishing and not holding up to the "God standard".
Outline
Love as a Daily Choice
- Alanya Grace introduces herself as a spiritual technologist and founder of Binary Spirit, emphasizing the importance of love and relationships.
- She references Joshua 24:15, highlighting that love is a daily choice, serving as the foundation for her spiritual lifestyle.
- Alanya explains that love must be chosen every hour, minute, and second to elevate consciousness and let go of attachments.
- She discusses the binary choice of choosing God and love, emphasizing that we are all created in the image of God and love.
Romantic Relationships and Spirituality
- Alanya describes romantic relationships as a gift from God, designed to bring us higher in consciousness.
- She explains that a true spiritual relationship should be compatible on all seven dimensions of consciousness.
- Alanya advises making a covenant with God before marriage to ensure the romantic relationship brings higher consciousness.
- She emphasizes that love heals, teaches, and brings us closer to our divinity, urging a commitment to choose love despite life's challenges.
Practical Advice for Choosing Love
- Alanya advises developing the ability to let life's challenges flow through us like a river, without getting attached to difficulties.
- She encourages pausing to choose love and elevate consciousness, bringing out our spiritual wings.
- Alanya shares her personal experiences, including her background in fencing and endurance sports, and how she applies discipline in relationships.
- She reflects on the importance of feeling peace and reciprocation in love, even when giving love feels challenging.
Signs of Incompatible Relationships
- Alanya discusses the importance of matching consciousness in a relationship, including thought, feeling, and will.
- She explains that a lack of compatibility is a divine sign that the relationship is not nourishing and does not meet the God standard.
- Alanya advises using the "scissors of the soul" to cut ties with unfulfilling relationships and create space for true divine relationships.
- She emphasizes the importance of pursuing one's highest good and letting go to allow for God's true, beautiful, and respectful relationship to manifest.
Commitment to Love and Divine Guidance
- Alanya encourages making a commitment with a partner and God to choose love daily.
- She advises observing if a partner can keep the bond with God and respect the divinity within us.
- Alanya concludes by expressing her hope that the talk has spoken to listeners and emphasizes that love is a choice.
- She prays for God's blessing and the Holy Spirit's guidance for the listeners.
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Blessings, S.T. Alanya Grace